To know what you deserve in the world can really push your own individual boundaries which leads to many different possibilities. To find your identity and where you fit into society and your purpose can really show people that you’re not afraid anymore. We all live in fear in our own ways. Even the bravest of people of something they’re afraid of. For myself. It’s taken me many trials and errors to really understand where I belong in society and what I deserve in someone. It’s a life journey that can take someone years, months, or even days to find out. It falls back to where you need to self reflect on yourself. What makes me happy? What are my hobbies? What are my quirks? What makes me stand out? What makes me unique and different? Then, when you’re trying to find your special someone, take time to figure out what you want in someone. Don’t settle for someone less than what you have in mind as your perfect person. Every date you go on or even relationship you’ve been in, will bring you closer to finding out what you really deserve and want in your life. For myself, I haven’t been in a relationship for about 9 months. It’s taken me a while to figure out what I deserve. I’ve gone on many dates and learned something new about myself each time and about what I want in someone. It’s lead to finding my best friend. Through many different outcomes and battles that I personally had to face, it’s lead me to what I deserve in my life. I couldn’t ask for anything better. Also, as a student, it’s taken me about a year to really figure out what I wanted to do with my life. With different classes, it’s lead me to realize what my strengths and weaknesses are. I’ve decided on becoming a child psychologist because I have a natural gift for kids and I love helping kids of all kinds. To have the strive and passion for something as this, can really impact other individuals. It’s my purpose. I know my self worth and value because of all the trials and battles I’ve had to face. To realize that we can all reflect on our own unique lives and learn from them, think to yourself, what do I deserve? What makes me happy? What do I deserve? Knowing your place, push yourself to get there. It’s just the start of an ever ending battle. We all have our own inner demons we battle. Our doubts and self confidence deflated especially after something bad happens like losing your job. Something like that will hit you hard and life changing, but it’s not the end of the world. Things will always get better it’s just the way life is. We all have our ups and downs. It’s a matter of knowing our self worth and value and find your place in the world. It will make you feel wanted and valued. To have that appreciation will really make your entire attitude happier and more positive. Sometimes-knowing your self worth and value can lead to more things happening and occurring in your life. For example, it can lead you to your skin glowing, being over all more happy and up beat, and better for your health. Every action has a consequence whether it’s good or bad.