Sometimes your partner in life has moment when he or she feels like things are going so well. For example, there maybe times when you or your partner get really busy and are unable to talk to you like they’re used to or even see eachother. To show your partner that you really do care about them, go out of your way to make time for them whether it’s 5 minutes 10 minutes or even 1 hour long, so show your partner despite what’s happening at that moment in time, make time for them! Actions always speak louder than words. You can sit there and tell your partner, “I’m sorry it won’t happen again”. However does that really do anything to make them feel better? Being a woman we sometimes get thoughts from not hearing back from our partners. These thoughts consist of cheating, scandal, or doing things we just don’t appreciate all together. Reassure your partner. See them, make time for them, let them know how they mean to you, or even a simple text here and there to let them know you’re alright, would make an impact. We are all insecure about something it’s just how us humans are. I’m personally insecure about people who cheat on me. I have a past where many people have cheated on me and don’t think much of it. Thankfully I’ve learned and grown from it since, but I still have those thoughts lingering because I’m used to being taken advantage of. Thankfully so far in my current relationship I don’t have to worry about none of that, but still. We have those thoughts of what if? If you’re the one who is insecure, tell your partner how you’re feeling. They don’t always know your feelings. If you express yourself then they can get an idea of what your feelings are in that moment of time. If your the person hearing this, do whatever you can in your power to make your partner feel important wanted valued. For example, buy them flowers, take them to dinner, just so something. Don’t sit there and do nothing because it’s not going to help the situation at all. It will eventually get worse and slap you in the face. We us people can control situations by the choices we make every single day. If you’re in a marriage and let’s say you go on a company vacation and you’ll be gone for a week, call your partner everyday. If you call them every day they’ll know you’re okay and you’re enjoying yourself. If they don’t hear from you, then they worry about your safety. We control ultimately the way we act or behave. If you really love that person, show them. Don’t sit around and do nothing. Show them how much they do mean to you. Even if it’s something little, it’s still better than nothing at all. Your partner should always be one of your top priorities. He or she may not be number 1 or 2 but they should still be up there. If they’re last, then you’re doing something wrong. You don’t care about that person. Leave them. If you’re feelings do love and care about your partner, do something. For example, since moving back home I haven’t been able to travel back to see my boyfriend. I finally have the time to go and see him when he’s not busy or I am. It’s the little things like that. Even if it’s not all day just a few hours, it makes all the difference.
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My name is Samantha! I go by either Sam or Sammy. I am a psychology major at Cal. State University, Bakersfield. I am 21 years old. I love sports, traveling, food, writing, and spending time with friends and family. I have two dogs! My goal of this blog is to give women and men a voice. I want them to know they're not alone and I will be here for them, through anything that life throws at them! I want to also encourage people to become better versions of themselves, in order to be happy with who they are as a person. :) Follow my Instagram account @sam_basso1020 View all posts by Sammy